Tag Archives: Midlife crisis

Tips For Dating Your Spouse . . . . When Separated

So you think things are already way too crazy? Get ready for a crash course in Courtship Craziness! First of all, it’s not courtship initially. Your spouse is likely to be considering a date or two as due diligence before … Continue reading

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Culpability in Marital Breakdown

Important: this is not a post for anyone who is in an abusive relationship. This is for ‘normal’ marriage crisis. This is the hardest post to write by far.   When you’re already feeling cast upon the heaps of emotional … Continue reading

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“How could you do this to our family?”

I’m still asking this question in my mind 16 months after the fact, and my husband is happily back home with me. This kind of thing has a very long tail, of that there is no doubt. I’d like to … Continue reading

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It Takes a Village to Save a Marriage

Choose your village carefully. Each person you allow into your village will have an important voice at a time when you are feeling fragile. I had only two voices for many months and those two were like solid gold. They … Continue reading

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The First Post. Yes!!

I always said that my first line for this blog would be, “Sweetheart, you’ve gotta grow up overnight”.  What do I mean by that?  I am a 52 year old woman, now 30 years married who is talking to you … Continue reading

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